Y’all! If you would have told me in January that on April 1, 2020, that I would be back working from home, assisting my son with classwork, and “social distancing” was actually a thing, I probably would have said “IKYFL!” (if you don’t know what that means, inbox me or ask a teen—and while you’re at it ask them what KMSL means because I still don’t have a clue).
At the conclusion of 2019, my professional life made a dramatic 180 degree pivot for the better. Other circumstances that were also troublesome were showing signs of hope as well. I thought that 2019 was the 2nd worst year that I’d experienced in my life and things would only get better in the new year, but 2020 said “hold my beer!”. The year 2020 is a reminder to all to count your blessings, because things could always be worse.
March was a complete emotional roller coaster for me. It started with me counting down to a much need cruise vacation. I enjoyed planning my itinerary and was overjoyed with each outfit that arrived in the mail as I thought of the selfies that I’d take in them. The month left me with allergies and hot flashes which constantly has me asking myself “’Is that you, Rona?” I find myself constantly having to fight negative thoughts about dying or surviving without my loved ones.

Alas! April has rolled around. I woke up this morning feeling a encouraged. I am at peace. God is in control and His will is going to be done. The only thing I can control is being proactive about taking measures to reduce exposure of the virus to my family, checking on family and friends to make sure they are okay, and making the most of the time that we have been given. I will come out of this experience better!
We’re in this thing together, so let’s run on to see what the end’s gon’ be!
Take care and be blessed,
Chandra



but at the end of 2018, I made a mermaid with a “story”. The story of a
Oya was crafted intentionally to resemble Sili. When I asked Sili how she wanted to have her hair styled, the only instruction I was given is that “she has to have ‘Sili’ hair”—Alrighty then. The schythe and iruke, both also made by me, are inspired by the ones that belong to Sili. Oya is warrior, which I designed with flat feet. She is ground and “stays ready”. She is in customary skirt of 9 colors and has 9 copper bangles on her wrist.



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So, I am beginning my own “Blogging Bootcamp” utilizing all of the knowledge I have gained from BLOGHer. Now, I get it, it may not be the most direct and succinct way to polish my blog, but the way my monetization is set up (meaning, I am not monetizing one bit at this time) I am going to use the information I have to date to the fullest. My ultimate goal is to shape the blog and then in the near- distant (is that an oxymoron) future hire one of my successful blogging friends to help tone up the “muscle”. Note—I said hire, as their knowledge and experience has value.
here was an unexpected, but welcomed, political/activism aspect. Through this exchange, I learned that I am definitely left of moderate, but I am a bit closer to the middle than the far left, and I’m OK with that. Also, though I don’t necessarily agree with all the political views of Ana Navarro, seeing her in person at the conference made her a political rock star in my book.
s a mixture of the aforementioned versions and a lot more. My first tweet on Friday was about the anxiety I had about wearing leopard leggings. When I arrived to the conference, I was relieved to see that everyone showed up the way they desired. This was liberating and was definitely a confidence booster.